RB Ruth Barb May I'm an active Mormon girl. Many times, that is exactly what it really does feel like Yes I'am all to aware about those silly answers regarding pay and "don't worry be happy" boloney. If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. I'm raising great kids alone I'm alone at all those same events It's been a huge personal sacrifice to support my husband all these years. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. That is a hard truth.
God told me to marry my husband. It will be up to you, her man, to support the positive expectations. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. Go on dates on days other than Sunday. He hadn't realized it was the same weekend as my birthday, or even that it was a big birthday - 30. We talked during the break and saw each other a few times before he moved, but he finally ended things a month into the break telling me "he loves me, but is no longer in love with me" and "doesn't think he can regain the passion.
Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient. I am so happy to have found this blog. Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. When we started dating, he was in his fellowship. We strive to improve each other. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple.
You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much. I was in your same position years ago. Help answer questions Learn more. When we are together it is amazing he obviously has work that he takes care of when I am there but for the most part he tries his best to leave work at the office. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage.